26 signs that you have a GREAT GIRLFRIEND!

You have a girlfriend? Yes? Ah! Good, good my friend, but it's she worth calling a GREAT GIRLFRIEND? You don't know? Well chill let's Check this 26 signs out together, if she matches all then you're a lucky guy blessed with an angel!

1. She likes what you like.
You both like going to the movies, swimming, and you have pretty similar views on which people should be locked up. Not that you agree on everything, of course, but at least you are on the same track 90% of the time.

2. She never interferes with your work.
Yoko Ono (John Lennon’s second wife) once remarked in an interview, “In a way both John and I ruined our careers by getting together.” 

3. She tells you why she is in a bad mood.
Nobody can be a in a good mood all the time. She tells you why something is wrong, what happened at work to make her mad and why she is in a foul temper. Some people call that real communication.

4. She loves you for who you are, not for what you do.
Lots of famous people attract others because of their stardom. Tim Tebow makes it very clear that he wants a kind and sweet girl who is not dazzled by his fame.

5. She Loves You.
 A woman who does not try changing you into what she wants is hard to find. If you have a woman who loves and accepts you for whom you are – both your strengths and weaknesses – and not what you try to be, she loves you.
Of course, some of your habits may be annoying, but she will cope with them if she really loves you. The way she looks at you or treats you on a daily basis can tell if she really loves you or not. She lights up when you surprise her with a phone call or visit at the office.

6. She has no problems with her own body image.
She is not trying to change her body all the time. She is not obsessed with dieting or going to the gym. She is perfectly at ease with herself.

7. She Let's You Be The Man.
 A woman who bullies you to quit watching football with your buddies or tries to get you to eat vegetables and fruits for breakfast, is not a great girlfriend and you should not get involved with her. This can also make you dislike her even more. If she lets you watch football with your friends and brings you a couple of beers and sandwiches, she is a great girlfriend.

8. She shares your values.
You both “click” on how people should be treated. You have definite views on what education is and how important honesty is. Above all, you have very clear ideas on money and how it should be spent. It doesn’t matter whether you are a cheapskate or a big spender, as long as you are both in the same category!

9. She is open with you.
You know about her childhood and the problems she had because she has talked openly about these things. You know all about her worries and her little obsessions. You know about them because she wants a friend who loves her not only for all her brilliant qualities but her defects as well.

10. She is a good listener.
She wants to know what went wrong with that project at work or why you got mad with your boss. She is not afraid to ask for details. Her questions are focused on where you are coming from. She offers advice when asked for it.

11. She is such fun to be with.
You laugh at the same things. You enjoy lots of things together. You appreciate each others’ silly jokes, cartoon characters, stupid songs and crazy things on Facebook.

12. Gets Along With Family and Friends.
 If she is the type that helps your mom with the dishes or folding the laundry, listens to your dad’s ‘boring’ stories, and your friends don’t roll their eyes when she’s around, she is a great girlfriend. She will not make you dump your friends and will make an effort to know and love the most significant people in your life.

13. She never asks for advice about clothes.
She never asks you to help her choose clothes and would never dream of asking you whether a certain color suits her. She does not need that kind of advice because she is perfectly confident and poised.

14. She knows how to surprise you.
She knows how to spring a surprise on you. That can be anything from a different outing, a sudden change of plans or anything else which breaks the routine. Too much routine turns into boredom.

15. She never nags you.
She is the one who can let the small things go so that you can feel perfectly at ease in her company. You are both relieved that there is no nit-picking or nagging. You have both moved on and upgraded. You are now on a journey of personal growth and mutual self improvement.

16. She makes you a better man.
 A great girlfriend will make you want to be a better man without knowing. She will not ask you to change your bad behaviors, but you will find yourself wanting to be a good boy.

17. She respect's you.
 Most men complain that their girlfriends do not respect them. If your girlfriend listens to you, doesn’t belittle or demean you in any way, she respects you. However, sometimes she will not agree with you, but this does not mean she is being disrespectful. She will not make a scene in front of your family or friends or in public, and will always discuss things in private.

18. She's independent.
Who doesn’t want an independent woman? No man wants to babysit her girlfriend or tell her what to do. However, once in a while let her cry on your shoulder, but if she can’t seem to function without you, it is a total turn off. If she can stand on her own – both financially and emotionally, and has her own opinions and personality, and she’s able to enjoy time without you, she is a great girlfriend.

19. She's intelligent.
Although this may not be as important to some men, but others find a complete turn-on dating women they can meet at an intellectual level. You won’t feel like the only one in control here because an intelligent woman will keep you trying to figure out what she is really thinking.

20. She's beautiful.
This may not be important to some men, but a great girlfriend is one that takes care of herself for you and her too. She will not put on a skinny top and jeans or pantyhose for a dinner party at your parents place or your office. However, if you find that her heart or kindness is beautiful and don’t mind what she wears or how she looks on the outside, she is a good deal.

21. She's a good cook.
They say, ‘the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.’ While some men can’t attest this, others claim that as long a woman can cook good food, it doesn’t matter what other traits she possesses. If your girlfriend is the type that can work the cooker and make good food, she is a great girlfriend – the type that you don’t want your friends to find her at home alone!
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